On this Memorial Day, I pause to think of some things that I really don’t understand. Things like war and peace and structures of government and patriotism. Things like those who serve our country with honor and valor and integrity.
But I also think about those who "serve" with little to no integrity or honor. Those who use power to support their own greed. Those who deal in corruption and oppression. I think (several times a day!) about the horrific mess the world is in. I am embarrassed by my own country’s part in so many of the messes.
I often feel hopeless about those whose lives are being torn apart and who can find no safety - and those whose meager food supply is stopped by big cranky egotistical politicians. Sometimes I just want to shake people or scold them into behaving better - as if THAT would work!!!
I wish I knew what to do to make things better. The only thing I’ve come up with is to respond in an opposite spirit. When I see corrupt powerful people shame and harm helpless people, I try to remind myself to watch for opportunities to build people up. To elevate them. To contribute to their safety and/or wellbeing.
I also watch for other people who are successfully helping the oppressed and making the world a better place. They give me hope. And they inspire me to keep trying.
For my own sanity and mental health, I’m learning to limit my exposure to such awful words and deeds from the bullies out there. Instead I choose to pay attention to and promote the work of those who are protecting and caring for the ones who are being bullied. I really like people who stand up for people who are bullied. Those who show compassion rather than contempt.
And I discover that there are a WHOLE LOT of them out there.
Hallelujah!
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